Online specialist coaching worldwide and face to face training for people or families with ADHD, Asperger's Syndrome, Autism and Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA)

Adult Coaching
Are you employed, self employed, a student or between jobs? If so, coaching can help you feel more in control, improve relationships, reduce stress and achieve better results in your life.

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Family Coaching
Do you have children, young adults or family members with Autism, ADHD or PDA and need individual specialist coaching to help you cope with the daily challenges you face?

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PDA Training
Are you living or working with children or young people with PDA, Autism or ADHD and require training to help you support them to reduce anxiety and improve their daily lives?

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It is a pre-requisite that all members of the Side by Side team are either parents, have close family members or have the conditions themselves as we believe it gives a unique and essential depth of knowledge and understanding.

Side by Side Coaching is an online service offering confidential specialist coaching for families, adults and students with ADHD, Asperger's Syndrome, Autism and Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA). This virtual service offers face to face support via video chat technology (e.g. Skype) or phone if you prefer, in the comfort of your own setting without the inconvenience or cost of travel. We have clients from across the globe including Europe, USA, Canada, Australia and Asia. For further information contact us on info@sidebysidecoaching.co.uk or see our family coaching and adult coaching pages.

Side by Side Training provides face to face trainers in PDA, Autism and ADHD for parents and professionals. It will improve understanding for anyone living or working with children and young people with these conditions. Autism and ADHD training is bespoke to the group and setting. For further information see our training page or contact us on: info@sidebysidecoaching.co.uk

Side by Side SEN Support is a service for parents/carers of children and young people with Special Educational Needs. Our SEN Support staff are comprehensively trained in all aspects of SEN law and have first-hand knowledge of navigating through the SEN processes. We provide guidance session on making applications for Education, Health and Care (EHC) needs assessment and plans, preparations for annual reviews and empowering you to get the best possible outcome. For further information see our SEN support page or contact us on: info@sidebysidecoaching.co.uk

About Us

Good Schools Guide publish feature by Cathy May & Karen Whichello outlining signs of PDA and strategies for parents and schools.


Coaching works as a partnership between you and your coach and very much focusses on your goals. We will explore what you would like to achieve and together develop solutions to overcome any difficulties. The number of one hour sessions required varies as everyone has different needs so this can be discussed at the initial contact. A diagnosis or referral is not required.

PDA Training

Training is delivered in a full day course and covers key areas such as understanding PDA, how PDA differs to Autism and simple but effective techniques to help reduce anxiety, improve communication and learning outcomes for children and young people with PDA.
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Funding for Coaching and Training

Local Authority funding is being accessed for coaching and training services. Cathy May offers support to university students and is currently listed on the DSA-QAG quality assurance framework for Disabled Student Allowance funding.
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'I am in awe of the extent of the success coaching has had on our lives. I did not have expectations when I began, it was a desperate time and I had limited options. We are now regulated, without medication, and have our lives back. Our gratitude is limitless.
1. I have not been physically hurt for nearly a year.
2. Nothing has been destroyed purposefully, for nearly 6 months.
3. My 7-year-old daughter has begun to manage her own strategies during meltdowns.
4. We have not missed a day of school in over six months.
5. We can travel safely in the car.
Spread the word, make this as available to as may people as possible.
Thank you, thank you, thank you.' Parent, India, Aug 17

'Thank you thank you, I can never say this enough! You are wonderful, inspiring and have helped me regain my confidence and life. That is no understatement!!.' Parent Lincs June 2017

'Cathy acknowledged me as a human first, a parent and wife second. I felt validated and empowered to make some big decisions I've needed to take for a long time. Thank you!' June 2017

'I just wanted to say thank you so much to Karen, myself and my boss attended your course on Friday, it was fantastic I came out of there with new ideas and a much better outlook on PDA, I've put some of your ideas into place and so far this morning has been surprisingly easier. It will be baby steps but we will get there in the end !! Xx' February 2017

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Coaching +44 (0)7956 023636
Training +44 (0)7850 264265
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Online Specialist ADHD, Asperger Syndrome, Autism and PDA Coaching